I think that one thing you realize as you grow older is how much people don’t need to be in your business. You become easily annoyed at people who act like they want to get to know you but really just want to know what you’re doing. It’s challenging and tough but as you grow older your circle gets smaller sometimes. I think that it’s just because maturity demands that some people must be outgrown. You learn to let people go and reduce your risk of heartbreak eventually. People don’t like to be told what to do and tactfulness can get you where bullying or manipulation won’t.