I recently had a birthday and I did a lot of self reflection. This year was so filled with heartbreak and tears… I was reminded of the importance of not settling. While I’m not looking for a perfect person, I do want someone who has goals, and knows what commitment means. Recently I reconnected with someone I used to work with a long time ago. Instead of texting me he actually calls and remembers what I say to him. He’s supportive and shows genuine interest in my life. Nothing has been defined and I’m not sure that I want it be. But it’s nice to have some attention and to be listened to. I’m not holding my breath but I’ll enjoy it while it lasts….